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Why babies should never sleep alone: A review of the co-sleeping controversy in relation to SIDS, bedsharing and breast feeding

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Summary

There has been much controversy over whether infants should co-sleep or bedshare with an adult caregiver and over whether such practises increase the risk of SIDS or fatal accident. However, despite opposition from medical authorities or the police, many western parents are increasingly adopting night-time infant caregiving patterns that include some co-sleeping, especially by those mothers who choose to breast feed. This review will show that the relationships between infant sleep patterns, infant sleeping arrangements and development both in the short and long term, whether having positive or negative outcomes, is anything but simple and the traditional habit of labelling one sleeping arrangement as being superior to another without an awareness of family, social and ethnic context is not only wrong but possibly harmful. We will show that there are many good reasons to insist that the definitions of different types of co-sleeping and bedsharing be recognised and distinguished. We will examine the conceptual issues related to the biological functions of mother–infant co-sleeping, bedsharing and what relationship each has to SIDS. At very least, we hope that the studies and data described in this paper, which show that co-sleeping at least in the form of roomsharing especially with an actively breast feeding mother saves lives, is a powerful reason why the simplistic, scientifically inaccurate and misleading statement ‘never sleep with your baby’ needs to be rescinded, wherever and whenever it is published.

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INTRODUCTION

While recent cultural implements such as cribs, mattresses and bedding did not evolve to protect and feed infants throughout the night, protective maternal behaviours including bodily contact between the mother and infant during co-sleeping most certainly did.2, 3 Despite opposition from western medical authorities or police officials, many western parents are increasingly adopting night-time infant caregiving patterns that include some co-sleeping behaviour, especially amongst mothers who

HOW SOCIAL FOLK MYTHS ABOUT THE ‘NORMALCY’ OF SOLITARY INFANT SLEEP ACHIEVED SCIENTIFIC VALIDATION

When infant sleep studies were first undertaken using polysomnography the bottle fed, solitary sleeping infant became the gold standard method used to produce data on ‘normal’ infant sleep physiology. Neither ethological sleep studies of non-human primates nor cross-cultural or ethnographic data on more universal patterns were used as comparators. Instead, western social ‘folk’ assumptions about what constituted healthy infant sleep were made, often based on moral justifications reflecting

The Supine Co-sleeping Infant Probably Emerged to Facilitate Breast Feeding at Night

‘For species such as primates, the mother is the environment’ Sarah Blaffer Hrdy… Mother Nature: A History of Mothers, Infants and Natural Selection (1999)33

If anthropological evidence on infant sleep and development were integrated and used as a starting point to inform infant sleep research, there is no doubt that the question we would be asking is not if it is safe for an infant to sleep next to its breast feeding mother, but rather, is it safe not to!

Born with only 25% of its adult brain

TOWARD CLARIFYING DEFINITIONS AND DISCOURSE ON MOTHER–INFANT CO-SLEEPING: CO-SLEEPING VERSUS BEDSHARING VERSUS DANGEROUS CONDITIONS

Mother–infant co-sleeping represents the preferred and obligatory sleeping arrangement for most contemporary people. In many instances there is no other choice for families and, still, even in industrialised western countries without the intense breast feeding and physical monitoring that accompanies co-sleeping, the survival of an infant is threatened. For example, Chen and Rogan68 found that, even in the USA where infectious diseases do not seriously threaten the lives of infants,

CO-SLEEPING: A MANY DIVERSE THING

‘I slept in the same bed with my granddaddy…and then in the same bed with my four cousins, I never slept alone ‘til I got married’ Bobby Bowden, Head University Football Coach, Florida State University

‘Cosleeping? When both my wonderful children are sleeping at the same time’. Robert Hahn, Ph.D., Center For Disease Control, Atlanta, Georgia

Mother–infant co-sleeping takes different forms worldwide.67, 69, 70, 71, 72 No singular outcome can be associated with it, unless ‘factors’ associated with

FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF THE BREAST FEEDING MOTHER–INFANT DYAD: WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO ‘BEDSHARE?’

‘Breast feeders are three times more likely to bed share and appear to differ from non-breast feeding bedsharers in several characteristics. These data do not link bedsharing to risk of SIDS.’ McKenna et al.76

In the largest in-house laboratory study yet undertaken, differences in the sleep behaviour and physiology of 70 breast feeding mothers and infants were quantified. This study involved over 105 separate nights in the laboratory, 155 8-hour infra-red video recordings and 210 separate mother

INFANT BREATHING AND HEART RATE PATTERNS IN THE BEDSHARING AND SOLITARY SLEEP ENVIRONMENTS

The bedsharing environment is also associated with more central apnoeas, fewer obstructive apnoeas and more periodic breathing in infants than the solitary environment (although the clinical significance of these differences cannot be assessed.78 Thus, during bedsharing, irrespective of the routine sleeping arrangement at home, the infant experiences a higher frequency of central apnoeas during stages 1 and 2 and during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Among routinely solitary sleeping infants,

SIDS BEDSHARING EPIDEMIOLOGY AND CATASTROPHIC ‘OVERLAYS’

‘The findings suggest that it is not bedsharing per se that is hazardous but the particular circumstances in which bedsharing occurs.’

‘There is no published evidence of any increased risk to a baby from sharing a bed with a firm mattress with parents who do not smoke and have not consumed alcohol or other drugs providing the bedding is arranged so that it cannot slip over the baby's head, and the baby is not sleeping on a pillow, or under an adult duvet.’68

‘Sixteen percent of SIDS were

BOTTLE FEEDING–BEDSHARING MOTHER–INFANT DYADS AND BREAST FEEDING–BEDSHARING MOTHER–INFANT DYADS ARE NOT THE SAME!

‘Bad science sets out to make a point, looks neither to the left nor to the right but only straight ahead for evidence that supports the point it sets out to make. When it finds evidence it likes, it gathers it tenderly and subjects it to little or no testing’. Mark Vonnegut, The Boston Globe, October 1999.

Breast feeding and co-sleeping, including breast feeding in the context of bedsharing, are often mutually reinforcing and constitute an integrated system. That is, the choice to breast feed

SUMMARY

‘We believe it is inappropriate to fundamentally condemn the practice of bedsharing by professional advise. In parental counselling, the individual child's needs, the family context, and cultural background need to be taken into account’ Jenni et al. (2005)89

The rejection by the media of Commissioner Ann Brown's recommendation against ‘sleeping with baby’ in the USA and the public controversy generated by papers by Nakamura et al.,29 Drago and Dannenberg24 and, more recently, by Scheers et al.,

CONCLUSIONS

‘Pediatricians need to recognize the cultural environments in which children live and how cultural beliefs and values interact with the needs of the individual child and with the biological characteristics of his or her sleep patterns’ Jenni and O’Connor.91

Discussions about infant and childhood sleeping arrangements will benefit by moving away from the notion that a single recommendation is appropriate. In a recently published supplement to Pediatrics92 on ‘Cultural Issues and Children's Sleep:

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